What is happening?

In common parlance…we are getting married. We are having an engagement party and a wedding.

What is happening in London?

An engagement party in a pub.

Where is the “official” part of the wedding taking place?

In the Bronx, New York City.

What should I attend?

We welcome everyone to attend our engagement party in London especially if you are based in the UK! We will not be offended if you cannot make it, of course.

We will be sending out a print invitation for the official wedding/quedding in NYC. Unfortunately, we are unlikely to be able to accommodate everyone at this party. If you did not receive this or a direct verbal follow up we hope to see you at another event soon!

We are treating both events as celebrations of our union so you won’t miss out!

Do you have a registry?/ I want to send a gift!

We do not have a registry but we included an option to send a gift if something is burning a hole in your pocket. Click here for more info!

What can I expect?

Both events will reflect our values, personalities, and our desire that everyone should be free to express themselves, at their fullest, especially during celebratory times.

Is there a dress code?

Celebrate your beautiful and extraordinary self!

Don’t know what that means? This is a great opportunity to figure that out!

Dare to flair. Push your limits!

Does that mean a sweatshirt, sweatpants and barefeet? Sure!

Does it mean a fascinator, custom ball gown, dripping jewelry, 9-inch heels, new nails, new hair, etc? That’s fine too.

Suits are not required.

If pushed, we would ban beige and its muted color relatives and invite the glory of vibrant colors only!

Is there parking?

We have limited space for parking, please make your request via our contact page: www.shaunandilan.com/contact

Is the venue wheelchair accessible? 

Yes! For information visit: www.andrewfreedmanhome.org/visit-us/. For further assistance, please reach out via our contact page: www.shaunandilan.com/contact